Author - Chelsea Martin

#AskBritishHusbands: What Are Your Thoughts on American Holidays?

In this edition of #AskBritishHusbands, Chris and Ashley discuss their thoughts on American holidays that do not exist in the UK. In particular, they discuss their thoughts on Thanksgiving and 4th July – perhaps the two most famous (and well known) examples of American holidays.

4th July & Thanksgiving

While these two American holidays are not celebrated in the UK – both Chris and Ashley have experienced them to some extent during their relationships with Jude & I. It’s interesting to get an outside perspective on how these two important days in the American calendar are viewed by others.

In general, Chris and Ashley like the idea of each – the idea of additional holidays is always a nice one. However, it’s also interesting to see how these holidays compare to those celebrated in the UK, especially the similarities drawn between 4th July and Bonfire Night. While each is different, they are both viewed as the day with which fireworks are most often associated with in each country.

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What Is ‘Ask British Husbands’?

This is the third episode in our #AskBritishHusbands series. In these videos, the British husbands of expats discuss what it’s like to date/marry a foreigner, cultural differences and more. By talking to a range of people in the UK, we hope you’ll get a great sense of what life is like and what to expect if you’re in an international relationship. To watch previous episodes, check out our full playlist here.

If you have a question you would like us to answer in a future episode, leave it in the comments below! Alternatively, send your questions to us on Twitter using our handle @ilovemybrit and using the hashtag #AskBritishHusbands.

– Chelsea

#AskExpatWives: What Do You Think About the British Accent?

As American expats living in the UK, one of the questions we hear most often from friends and family back home is, “Can you bring me back a British guy? I love their accents.” Since living in the UK however, it has become apparent that there isn’t just one quintessentially British accent. In fact, much like the US – it will very much vary depending on where you are.

Of course, there are the regional dialects – Welsh, Scottish and Irish (which can sound somewhat similar at first). But even in England, the differences are huge. When Chris & I moved from Plymouth to Lancaster (approximately 300 miles away), I had to readjust to a much more Northern way of speaking.

Understanding British Accents

In this video, Jude and I discuss how we have found adjusting to and understanding the different accents we have come across in the past year. We have found that we both have similar experiences where, very rarely, we just aren’t able to understand some pronunciations. It’s a very odd feeling, especially when speaking the same language.

But the longer we live in the UK, the more normal the accents become. Soon, it might be our friends and family in the US who sound different to us (though that is hopefully still a while away).

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What Is ‘Ask Expat Wives’?

This is the third episode in our #AskExpatWives series. In these videos we am to answer your questions about life as an expat, living in the UK, our British husbands and more. By talking to a range of expats in the UK, we hope you’ll get a great sense of what life is like and what changes you might expect if you are considering moving to a new country. Watch all previous #AskExpatWives videos here.

If you have a question you would like us to answer in a future episode, leave it in the comments below! Alternatively, send your questions to us on Twitter using our handle @ilovemybrit and using the hashtag #AskExpatWives. We’ll also be releasing a similar series next week, #AskBritishHusbands, where our significant others give their perspective on adapting to new cultures and life after an LDR.

-Chelsea

A Brit Tries American Candies, Snacks & Drinks (#Vlog 23)

After Chelsea tried traditional British snacks, sweets and foods – we thought it was only fair that Chris try some of their American counterparts. In this video, Chris eats a selection of American snacks, candies, drinks, cereals and more. Of course, because he has been to the USA on a few occasions, we specifically looked for items that he had not yet sampled.

While these may not be the most sterotypical American items for a Brit to try, they are all genuine reactions! Among the highlights are Twinkies, teryaki flavored jerky and Hot Tamales.

New American Tastes

I think it’s fair to say that although these were all very new to Chris – there were some he enjoyed, and some he was not as keen on. It definitely looks as though we’ll need to buy more jerky in the future, as that is one snack we both enjoy. But Chris didn’t like the chocolate donuts or Twinkies as much as I thought he might.

Trying new foods is always a fun experience, and through it we get to discover new tastes and might even surprise ourselves sometimes. Just like how Chris was surprised by the sherbert filling of a gobstopper.

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What’s Next?

Although we have now filmed both myself and Chris trying foods from the US and UK – we know we have only scratched the surface of what is available. If you have any ideas for other American snacks or food items you think Chris should try, leave them in the comments below.

Also, let us know if there are any other videos you would like to see us film. We’re considering a few others at the moment that include: a blind taste test (to see if we can guess which country each food item is from), trying new fast food chains and more!

-Chelsea

#AskBritishHusbands: How Were You Received into Your Foreign Wives Families?

Meeting the family of your partner for the very first time can be extremely daunting – and even more so when there is a cultural or language barrier between you. Both Chris and Joe have married into families outside of the UK – my family is from the US and Chantelle’s is from South Africa.

Meeting Your Wife’s Family

In this video they discuss how they were received into those respective families, as well as some of the challenges that they each had to overcome. Fortunately, both families were very accepting of them – but it was still quite an adjustment that had to be made.

My family, for example, thought it was funny that Chris was from the UK and so decked out our house with both British and American flags for his arrival. Then, meeting extended family (which can be fairly overwhelming) was the next step. Both Chris and Joe fared well with this and managed to bond with our families over similarities and discovering new differences alike.

Want more videos about long distance dating, expat life & our time together in the UK? Subscribe on YouTube to see new videos every Wednesday & Sunday.

What Is ‘Ask British Husbands’?

This is the second episode in our #AskBritishHusbands series. In these videos, the British husbands of expats discuss what it’s like to date/marry a foreigner, cultural differences and more. By talking to a range of people in the UK, we hope you’ll get a great sense of what life is like and what to expect if you’re in an international relationship. To watch previous episodes, check out our full playlist here.

If you have a question you would like us to answer in a future episode, leave it in the comments below! Alternatively, send your questions to us on Twitter using our handle @ilovemybrit and using the hashtag #AskBritishHusbands.

-Chelsea

#AskExpatWives: Why Plan Two Weddings in an LDR?

When closing the distance in an LDR, it is not uncommon for couples to have two weddings. Chris and I held two ceremonies – one in the US and one in the UK. In this video, Chantelle and I discuss the many reasons that long distance couples decide to hold multiple wedding ceremonies (from meeting visa requirements to giving family a chance to attend).

Having Two Weddings

In addition, we discuss how we each came to the decision to have multiple ceremonies, how we chose who to invite to each and how we made each day feel different yet special in its own right.

Keeping each day separate, yet memorable, is one of the most difficult aspects of this process. That’s why Chantelle and I explain some of the ways in which this can be achieved – including: the guest lists, location, the structure of each ceremony and more.

Want more videos about long distance dating, expat life & our time together in the UK? Subscribe on YouTube to see new videos every Wednesday & Sunday.

What Is ‘Ask Expat Wives’?

This is the second episode in our #AskExpatWives series. In these videos we am to answer your questions about life as an expat, living in the UK, our British husbands and more. By talking to a range of expats in the UK, we hope you’ll get a great sense of what life is like and what changes you might expect if you are considering moving to a new country. Watch all previous #AskExpatWives videos here.

If you have a question you would like us to answer in a future episode, leave it in the comments below! Alternatively, send your questions to us on Twitter using our handle @ilovemybrit and using the hashtag #AskExpatWives. We’ll also be releasing a similar series next week, #AskBritishHusbands, where our significant others give their perspective on adapting to new cultures and life after an LDR.

-Chelsea